One of the main reasons why individuals decide to leave a gym, or stop their exercise routine is: “I'm just not getting my goal”. Even though they may start off with nothing but good intentions, sometimes they just end up frustrated because their goal was never reached. Some of the more popular reasons why this may be are as follows:
- The goal isn't clearly defined
- There is no set plan on how to achieve the goal
- There are no result checks or monitoring set in place
Define Your Goal
People often set a goal that is so big that it could seem like it would take a lifetime to actually reach it, but when the goal is closely examined, it is not clearly defined. A goal should be as specific as possible, for example, if your goal was: “I want to lose weight”, it could be changed to: “I want to lose five pounds in the next four weeks”. To be successful, it's crucial to define it in as much detail as you can, so that you can evaluate whether or not you have actually reached your goal.
Break it Down
Once you have successfully decided what your goal is in detail, the next step is to take time to plan how you are going to get there. Breaking down your bigger goal into smaller sized goals, such as weekly or monthly targets, will help you to see how easy it is to reach a goal and more importantly, how easy it is to reach your bigger long-term goal, helping you understand what it is specifically you need to do each week to achieve it.
Result Checks
Monitoring your progress is essential to make sure you stay on track. You can monitor your goal on a weekly, biweekly, or even monthly basis. Exercise diaries are ideal to keep track on what you're doing and how close you are to reaching that goal.
If you find that you are starting to miss your smaller goals on a regular basis then try not to panic, don't give up. Adjustments can always be made to get you back on the road to success, sometimes you may even need a major overall of both your long-term goal, as well as your plan - but that's okay. If you find that you're having problems reaching your smaller goals then here are some questions you should be asking yourself:
- Do you need to make your goal more realistic?
- To keep your motivation high, do you need to remind yourself on a regular basis of the main reasons why you want to achieve this goal?
- Do your training sessions need to be more focused?
- Do you need to implement a strategy to help you get to the gym more often? (maybe get a friend's help)
Motivation and dedication is important if you want to successfully achieve those goals, but remember, even with the best intentions and plans, unexpected things can always happen in life to knock you off track. You need to remain flexible, but remain focused on what it is you want to achieve. Do this and your goal can become a reality.
However, the greater the challenge, the more rewarding it is when you finally attain the goal.
- Ken