The only time that he finds to call you or text you, is at 1 o'clock in the morning. He wants you to come over because he is too tired to talk on the phone, and he just wants to see your beautiful face. You send him a picture text of your face and he says that his phone can't recieve picture texts and that he would rather see you in person.
He shows up at your house at all hours, usually drunk, and tells you that he is sorry and was totally wrong and wants to make it up to you. You on the other hand, let him in and wonder what he is talking about.
For those long distance ones! He begs you to drive to wherever he is and tells you not to worry about paying for anything. When it's all over he buys you something to eat and fills your gas tank, so you can get back home. He tells you that he is so busy with working that he doesn't have time to meet you for very long. Usually just lond enough to get what he wants.
You text him and it takes him a week to answer you back and his excuse is because he didn't have reception, his phone was dead, he was using both his hands to do other work-related things, or he didn't hear it ring.
He stops talking to you the minute his or your friends find out you too have been hooking up. You are like his own personal secret and he tells you that. He tells you not to tell because it will be more adventurous if only the two of you know. When his friends question him about it, he says that he was just asking for something back that your crazy butt stole when you were stalking him.
His reason for you two not being together is because he works too much and he would feel like a bad boyfriend if he couldn't be with you more. He makes a point to tell you when he is not working and doing something else. When you mention that you wish you could be there, wherever he is, he tells you that you'd be bored and it wouldn't be any fun, but that he would like to see you later.
He guilt trips you into believing that it's his fault that you two can't be together, so that you'll throw him a pity party and say you understand even if you don't. He makes a point to make you feel that he really wants to be together but that he just isn't ready. He says that he really isn't ready for a long term commitment right now because his last girlfriends have hurt him so badly.
When he is out with his friends and he sees you, he pretends that he didn't. He even goes as far as to sit near where you are at but doesn't talk to you at all. He might even go as far as to leave but pretend that he didn't know you were there. They might also pretend they didn't see you and then dance with another girl like you aren't there. When asked they usally reply that it meant nothing and that you are the only one their heart desires. He might even go as far as to tell you she was a friends wife or that she is your cousin and that it shouldn't really matter.
If any of these things have happened or are currently happening to you, then you might have once been a booty call or are now being used for that such purpose.
