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How To Give A Great Blowjob

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How To Give A Great Blowjob

When you’re having sex, there’s much more to it than just penetration. In fact, there’s much more that consists of sex such as blowjobs, handjobs, and foreplay. Now, maybe you’re an expert at everything revolving around sex, but most of us aren’t. This isn’t bad, we simply may not have the experience and knowledge to become better, everything takes practice, right? One thing is for sure, is that many people are intimidated by blowjobs. They’re not sure exactly how to do it, they’re worried they’re doing it badly, but at the end of the day, they just don’t know what to do.  Which makes complete sense. But there are ways to learn how to give a great blowjob and it’s not very difficult. All you need to know is how to give an amazing blowjob. Well, this is your guide. We’re going to tell you everything there is in order to make your man go crazy.

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Enthusiasm is key 

Before we even get into techniques, it’s important that you know that the secret to an amazing blowjob is enthusiasm. You have to be into it. Have you ever had sex with someone who wasn’t really into it? If so, then you know how much of a buzzkill this can be. When you’re giving a blowjob, you need to want to do it. If not, it’s best that you don’t do it.

Enthusiasm will take your average blowjob and make it mind-blowing. When someone looks like they can’t control themselves, like they can’t keep their hands off of you, you’re immediately aroused. This is how powerful enthusiasm is. Now, you don’t want this to be fake though. Everyone can tell when someone’s faking it and when someone is really enjoying themselves. So, if you’re enjoying yourself, show it. If you’re not a fan of blowjobs, then try out other sexual acts like handjobs to arouse your partner. But the point is, even if you don’t know what you’re doing, it’s okay.

Find out what he likes

The best blowjobs or really any sexual activity is when the person is doing exactly what makes you feel good. It’s what hits the spot. We’re not the only animals which engage in oral sex either. Monkeys, bears and wolves also have oral sex – but the difference is, they can’t verbally communicate to each other. We have the upper hand as we’re able to verbalize how we feel. Effective communication can take your sexual experience and ramp it up ten notches. So, what you need to work on is communicating to each other on what he likes during oral sex.

Some guys prefer deep throating while others don’t. Some enjoy having their balls massaged during oral sex while other’s do not. You have to remember that what works for one guy may not work on another. This is why it’s important to find out, either by asking or testing it out yourself, what he likes and what he doesn’t like.

Plus, it’s also about what you like. Maybe you don’t like deep throating and that’s okay, but you need to communicate that to your partner so you don’t feel pressured to do it.

 

Don’t just go straight for a blowjob

Some women make the mistake of going straight for the penis, almost as if they want to get over it with. But that’s not what should happen. Yes, you should eventually perform a blowjob, however, you want to build up the tension and momentum. Instead of going right for the penis, you should slowly make your way down his body. You can start by making out with them or kiss their neck and then slowly work your way down. By kissing him while you have your hands around his groin area, you’ll be teasing him and building up the arousal.

Remember: wetter is better

This is something that should be the basis of every blowjob. The wetter the blowjob the better. You want to make sure that the penis is very wet, simulating the vagina. If you can’t produce enough saliva, then try to use edible lube as well.

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Don’t forget to lick 

Don’t just suck, lick. During a blowjob, you have a wide range of techniques to choose from which you can mix. Licking the penis is very easy to do and yet provides a lot of pleasure. Try licking him from the base of the penis all the way up to the tip. However, that’s not all you can do.

Tip: The tip of the penis is highly sensitive, though if your man is circumcised it does decrease sensitivity. But you should focus on licking the tip of his penis with the least amount of pressure applied to it.

Balls: Sadly, the balls are always forgotten, however, they’re highly sensitive. You can lick them or gently suck on them.

Anus: Another neglected area is the anus. It’s full of nerve endings. If you want to try it out, you can either go up and down with your tongue or in a circular motion.

It’s not really “sucking”

Here’s the thing, when you’re sucking his penis, you’re not really sucking it. All that you’re going to do is wrap your lips around his penis, with only the first couple of inches in your mouth. Then, you’re going to go up and down on that area. Make sure not to suck it too hard. While sucking his penis, your lips will be pressed against it, massaging it. Now, your mouth will naturally start to produce more saliva which then you can use to move further down his penis, eventually, sucking the entire penis.

While sucking his penis, you’ll be able to try out different techniques. You can use your hand as well to help you.

 

The Up and Down: This is the most basic blowjob techniques and one that you need to master before you can go on to the other ones. You’re going to take the penis and put it in your mouth, making an “O” shape around it. This shape will allow you to apply different pressures to it. Then, you’re going to move your head up and down, taking the penis in and out of your mouth. Now, once you feel more comfortable, you can then have the penis go deeper into your mouth, adding in the deep throat technique. You can also add some hand techniques as well to help you along the way.

The Twister: with your tongue and a lot of salivae, you’ll be able to do this move. You’re going to be holding the penis with one or two hands. With your tongue, you’re going to make a circular motion on the tip of his penis, changing direction and speed if you want.

Deep Throat: This is slightly more advanced, but if you can to it right, it’s amazing for him. Basically, you’re going to take the penis deep into your mouth, hitting the back of your throat. The penis should come in contact with the tonsils. Your throat may spasm which is what makes it more stimulating for him.

Against the cheek: While he’s inside your mouth, take the penis and press it against your cheek, rubbing it. You can use this in between your other moves as well to heighten the experience.

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Don’t only focus on the penis

Many people just go straight to sucking the penis, however, you’re forgetting many other areas which are erogenous zones. These zones are highly sensitive and can easily spark arousal. The balls and anus are easily neglected, however, are full of sensitive nerve endings. During the blowjob, you can suck or lick his balls and perform anilingus. Now, again, some men don’t like it while others do. However, to make the experience more pleasurable, with your tongue, go up or down or in a circular motion.

Use your hands

Now, you may find yourself getting tired while giving a blowjob, especially if he’s taking longer than what you expected. But you can do other things as well to help break it up. Rather than performing a blowjob, use your hands as to give him a hand job. This will allow your mouth to relax a bit and take a much-needed break without ruining the moment. In addition, you can always start making out with him as well, if you’re still highly aroused by just are tired from giving him a blowjob.

Practice

You know the old saying “practice makes perfect” and you know what, it’s true. If you want to be more comfortable and confident with blowjobs, the only way to do it is through practice. If you have a dildo, you can also practice on that as well. You don’t always need a man around to work on your blowjobs.

Sex is about confidence

Sure, sex is about two people sharing an intimate moment, but it’s also about yourself as well. Having confidence in the bedroom is important. It’s about being comfortable with your body, regardless of your flaws. The more comfortable you are with your body, the more sexually satisfied you and your partner will be. Why? Because you’re in the moment. You’re not thinking about your thighs or your stomach, you’re completely dedicated to the moment between you and your partner. Don’t worry about how you look while you’re giving a blowjob, just know that you look hot.

Know that he’s nervous as well

You may be nervous about giving him a blowjob, especially if you’re not overly experienced in it – and listen, this is completely normal. But don’t forget that he’s probably nervous as well. He wants to show you what he’s capable of, he wants to perform well, he doesn’t want to cum too early, so there’s pressure on his side as well. So, if you’re nervous about this, just know that it’s the same thing for him as well.

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