If you want a guy to notice you, seducing him is definitely the way to go. Men are sexual beings. They think about sex at least every 7 seconds whether they realize it or not. Therefore, the quickest way to get them to notice you may be through seduction alone.
Many women make a lot of mistakes when seducing a man. They come on too strong and ultimately it scares them away. There are a lot of different ways to seduce a man that will not only get his attention, but you’ll leaving him wanting so much more from you after you walk away.
In order to seduce a man who’s not yet yours, you’ll need a few tips. These tricks can help you make a guy notice you and you’ll be able to seduce him with ease. Don’t forget that every guy is different and therefore, you’ll have to go through trial and error before finding the perfect way to seduce him.
Confidence is literally the most important thing you can have when it comes to seducing a man. That’s why it’s #1 on this list. If you lack the confidence to show a man what you have, he’ll be able to tell and it’s not sexy at all. That’s why you have to work on having confidence before anything else. Hit the gym to feel better about your body, practice self-love, and own the room when you walk into it. Sometimes, all it takes is a confident entrance to seduce a man.
- Eye contact.
Confidence can only get you so far. But if you add in eye contact along with your confident strut, it’s even more effective. So make sure you’re making plenty of eye contact with the men you want to seduce. However, don’t prolong the eye contact to a point where it’s creepy. The best way to go about this is to walk in, make your eye contact for a few seconds, and then slowly take your gaze away from him. Once he sees that you’ve noticed him and looked at him thoroughly, he’ll want that attention again.
- Dress to impress.
There’s no denying that a killer outfit can make a huge difference when it comes to seducing a man. When you wear something enticing and sexy, a man’s eyes will always find you. The trick here is to dress in an alluring way, but also in a way that feels comfortable to you. If you’re not used to a tight dress and heels, it will look bad on you because you won’t be confident. If you feel amazing in some tight jeans and a t-shirt, that can work just as well for you. No matter what, you have to be able to own your outfit.
- Smell amazing – but not too strong.
When a guy catches a whiff of you, he wants to smell something enticing. However, he doesn’t want to get a nose full of perfume the second you get within 5 feet of him. For that reason, you have to choose a perfume that meshes well with your own pheromones. You also have to only wear a small amount of it. You should be using one spray on your décolletage and one on your wrist. That’s just enough to give you a sweet smell without going overboard.
- Show some skin, but not too much.
When you dress up in a great outfit, you want to show some skin. Men are very alert when there’s a lot of skin present on a female. However, you don’t want to show off everything you have right away. For that reason, you should always give glimpses of your goods without ruining a man’s imagination. Wear a low-cut shirt OR a short dress/skirt. Never both. When you show too much, a man thinks you’re too easy. They want the chase. So give them something to chase after.
- Smile a lot.
Don’t underestimate the power of a great smile. Men love to see a woman who’s having a great time because they also want to have fun. If they think you’re happy and having a good time, they’ll want in on some of the action. One thing you can do that will drive a man crazy and seduce him easily is to give him some lingering eye contact followed by a slow, genuine smile. Then look away from him and let him do the rest. He’ll want to be at your side getting to know you in no time.
- Show your neck/collarbone.
If you think showing a little skin is enough, try showing skin near your neck and collarbone area. Science says this part of a female body can make men do a double take as you walk by. This area is known to arouse men and make their thoughts turn in a sexual direction. Therefore, if you want to seduce a man who’s not yet yours, pull your hair back and war an open collar shirt. Believe me when I say this will definitely make him take another look at you.
- Flirt like you mean it.
Now that you’ve got his attention, you now get to flirt a LOT! Men may not pick up on a lot of cues, but flirting is definitely one they do. Once you’re close enough to a guy to flirt with him, get to it and don’t hold back. Make them laugh, wiggle your eyebrows suggestively, and make sure they know you’re totally into them. If they’re actively flirting back with you, it’s safe to say you’ve accomplished your seduction.
- Let him come to you.
If you really want to seduce a man, make it seem like it was his idea to approach you. Sometimes you just have to give a man a signal that you’re into him and he’ll come running. But if you’re facing a difficult guy, your way of getting him to chase after you can be a little more complex. What you need to do is make him interested in you without giving too much away. To do this, making eye contact, smiling, and acting shy can definitely help. When a guy thinks it was all his idea to approach you, it’ll make seducing him much easier.
- Give him the hot and cold treatment.
If he does finally approach him, the trick is to make him work for it. Guys love the chase, like I mentioned before. In order to make it fun and challenging for him, you have to give him a little and then reel it back in. Flirt with him easily and then turn your attention away. This makes him work hard for your affection while you’re also seducing him.
- Dance your heart out – and let him watch you.
Another way you can make a man approach you is to have fun dancing and do it in a sexy way. While you’re dancing, make sure to make eye contact with him and smile. Not only is this really sexy, but he’ll take it as an invitation to approach you.
- Give him small touches.
Once he’s close enough to touch, give him small touches. Doing this will make him feel as if he’s won you over, but he’ll work hard to get even closer and get you to touch him even more. A couple ways to do this is to brush up against him “accidentally” and you can also just put your hand on his arm if he makes you laugh. Both are great ways to seduce a man who’s not yet yours.
- But don’t let him touch you.
This is the secret here. You can give him small touches, but don’t let him get close enough to touch you. He’ll feel like this is a challenge and he’ll work hard to win you over and allow him to touch you. If he looks like he’s about to lean over and touch you, gently move further away so he can’t. This will drive him nuts. However, you don’t want to do this for too long or he’ll get bored.
- Bite your lip.
If you don’t think anything is really working in your favor, pull out this move. Biting your lip directs his attention right to it and it makes him think about your lips and in turn, he’ll begin thinking about all your lips can do.
- Walk away right when it heats up.
This may be really difficult to do, but it’s the golden move when it comes to seducing a man. Right when you two are heating up and things are getting really heavy, up and walk away from him. Not only is this really playful and teasing, but it’ll make him run after you like a puppy dog. Just make sure not to stay away for too long or he’ll drop the idea of getting you.
Seducing a man who’s not yet yours isn’t always easy, but these tips can definitely help make it easier. Just remember to flaunt what you’ve got, but don’t make it overly obvious you’re in it to win him over.